Webster’s Dictionary defines ambivalence as “a state of having simultaneous conflicting reactions, beliefs, or feelings towards some object”. In other words, its when we have two different feelings or attitudes, about something or someone, at the same time. I believe this perfectly captures the central conflict at the center of addiction. The majority of individuals, who are struggling with an alcohol or substance use disorder, simultaneously want to stop using while not wanting to stop using. For example, an individual may see the damage that his or her substance use is creating in his or her life, but may still feel as if there is a benefit to using. This benefit may be the pleasurable effects of the drug, social acceptance by peers who also engage in substance use, or he or she may use the substance in order to cope with depression, anxiety, or trauma. The goal of therapy is to help the individual resolve his or her ambivalence by examining both sides of this conflict, and helping him or her move closer to a reduction in or elimination of his or her substance use.
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Dr. Marc L. Feldman
610-675-5517
FAX: 484-709-1676
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Professional Endorsements
"Dr Marc Feldman is an outstanding clinician and collaborator. He is kind, non-judgmental, reliable, and goes above and beyond for his patients. I would highly recommend his services to a loved one looking for compassionate, evidence-based, and holistic addiction treatment".
--Dr. Michael Ascher,
MD.
"Dr. Feldman is an exceptional psychologist and well-respected colleague whom I had the pleasure to work with at the Keystone Center. Dr. Feldman's sensitivity to his clients' needs is only matched by his professionalism in providing them the best possible services. He is compassionate, warm, and genuine-- several of the most important ingrediants of a psychologist. It is for these reasons that I-- without reservation-- recommend his services".
-- Dr. Chad Coren,
Psy.D., CAADC
"I have known Dr. Feldman since 2010 and we have collaborated on some complicated cases. Dr. Feldman has always provided his patients with exceptional care, has great insight into understanding the challenges faced by them and readily collaborates with physician providers. His expertise has helped many patients find their way in life again. He is a compassionate, warm and very experienced clinician as his patients have come to know."
--Dr. Mohamed Dattu,
MD
"I have had the pleasure of working with Dr. Feldman as a peer and a colleague. Dr. Feldman is a psychologist who is truly invested in the well-being of his clients. His combination of empathy and professionalism allows him to connect with his clients in a unique and therapeutic manner. Dr. Feldman uses a variety of psychological techniques to individualize the therapeutic process according to the needs of the client. He is an excellent clinician who has been able to reach even significantly resistent clientele in order to help them achieve their goals".
-- Dr. Emily Chaffin,
Psy.D.
"As a criminal defense attorney, I often work with individuals who have substance abuse problems that have either resulted in, or played a role in their criminal charges. I refer many of these individuals to Dr. Feldman, because I am confident that they will receive competent and effective treatment, and that they will not be judged for their substance use or legal problems. I also practice family law, and have referred couples to Dr. Feldman in order to address the issues that have either caused them to seek legal counsel, or to work on problems that were created by their legal situation."